Top Five Things A Good Manager Wouldn’t Say.
May 17, 2012 Leave a comment
Are you a good Manager? The question that marks out the men from the boys, and success from failure. A fantastic team can be decimated by the sole person in charge getting it hopelessly wrong by insulting, demotivating, annoying and frustrating their staff. But are you one of those Managers? How would you know? Lots of people have worked for a bad Manager, and they always seem so oblivious as to the effect they have on their staff; that or they think that somehow that’s a good thing. So as a trip down memory lane for those who have been unlucky enough to work for a bad Manager and those who wonder if they are a bad Manager, here’s a list of the top five things a good Manager would not say.
1. “Don’t bring me problems without solutions”. Now on the face of it, the initial context behind this seems correct; don’t come whinging about an issue without first having considered a solution. This makes sense initially as it supposedly gives staff the option of being more independent. However, there are some problems that absolutely have to be resolved by a Manager, or reported immediately. What if your server is hacked? What if there’s a theft? What if there’s an impending problem that can only be resolved by senior management? This mindset, however well intentioned, has the ability to dissuade staff from reporting major issues when they absolutely need to be reported because they’re scared of looking like a whinge-bucket.
2. “You’re lucky to have a job in this economy”. Wow! Nothing says “I’ve got you over a barrel” more than this sentence. It might be meant as “there are bigger issues facing some people”, but it simply comes across as dismissive, arrogant and inconsiderate. Yes, people starving in warzones is worse than missing an important family event due to workload, but to dismiss this concern with someone else’s bigger concern just shows how little you care about your employees.
3. “Your pay is your bonus”. No, your pay is your pay. A bonus is not pay. If they were ways of talking, then pay would be the same as “good morning”, whereas a bonus is “Dave, you’ve done a fantastic job and I’m immensely proud of you”. Can you imagine putting in 100%, doing a fantastic job only to get no feedback at all? It’s utterly demoralising. Now, I appreciate some companies cannot afford a bonus if things are tight, but if that’s the case, say so! Tell them that it’s the case, unfortunately, but you’d like to integrate them in the plan to get the company to the point where it can pay bonuses. To refuse one so blankly when they’re financially viable simply says to the staff “hey, don’t put in any more effort than you need to do to avoid getting fired. The extra input won’t be recognised”.
4. “It’s not my problem”. This is never a valid response, unless the question is utterly frivolous. If someone’s got a problem with IT and that’s not your game, then pass the message on to IT. If it’s a regular occurrence and it interrupts your work, then set up a system to send problem reports on more efficiently. Never respond to an issue with “not my problem”, as this simply says “I can’t be bothered to help you. You’re on your own, loser”.
5. “It’s not my fault”. Ok in context, I should point out that this doesn’t apply when it genuinely isn’t your fault. However, in the battle up the greasy corporate pole, admitting that you’ve blundered on something is seen as admitting that you’re weak and feeble. However when something’s clearly your fault, passing blame onto others simply screams two things: “I’m unreliable” and “I’ll screw others over to protect myself”. Sometimes when something happens, you need to step back and think if it actually was you. If so, admit it, fix it and make it clear that procedures are in place to ensure it wont happen again.
